He live 2 and half hours away. He want her to spin the night. He said I want to be a single mom but I don’t had her since birth. Everytime I talk he didn’t sign and I’m responsible for her he get mad. He don’t want me to meet no one she would be around except his grandma. But he tells his ppl want to meet her. Never arrange nothing or they come this way.
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Legally you have full rights over your baby any issues with what you say he must take you to court and get a dna test absent parents want it easy if he fully wanted full responsibility he would have sign the birth certificate which would have also made him liable to pay child support it’s just for the show not the accountability or responsibility of your precious baby
he acts like he want relationship and to be with me and going get a place, but I don’t see it

If he wants a relationship with her he can meet you and whoever wants to see her too. I’m personally not letting my baby be around ppl I don’t know by themselves. There’s just too many things that can happen.
he be trying act like he want me to me to get her. It’s wild
that’s a exactly how I feel
he see her every week, but tell me I don’t have to be a single parent.

I think you should first get boundaries and respect from him and for your baby to see if that actually worth it but I’m wishing you the best just keep the baby in safe reach

It’s honestly a valid reason your baby isn’t even able to express themselves to a great extent. And if he hasn’t even been around her or around her a lot that’s not a good idea. You would know if they actually want a relationship with her because they would be willing to make the commute to see her whenever possible. My baby’s dad said he wanted to meet my son and he had saved up some money for him and he still has yet to see him or give any money. They will just say things and not make the commitment for it. Don’t worry about what he has to say about it if you’re not comfortable with it you need to do what feels right for your and your baby.

If he sees her every week he’s try to build it but just let him know you’re not comfortable with her staying there yet. Since you don’t know how she’ll react and it’s a long drive
she only 3 months
he still refuse sign and any paper work.

Yeah don’t do that she’s really young. You can if you feel like it when she’s older. It sounds like he just doesn’t want to give you money or anything like that but if you really want him to get papers signed you can always go to court. For me personally my sons father didn’t sign any paperwork but he’s also not seeing my son. I feel like if my son’s father was in the picture and he wasn’t signing paperwork I’d be going to court. So maybe try to talk to him and ask him why he doesn’t want to sign anything when he sees her every week

make sure you make the decision best for you! he isnt taking responsibility by signing certificate so i wouldnt leave him responsible out of your company. absoluely not... when he mans up then there can be a secondary conversation!
he told me he think the system made for the woman. I’m on wic/stamps and she on Medicare soo he think its guaranteed he would be on child support