Miscarriage Healing

I Was pregnant with my first baby for 5 weeks and then found out Tuesday I had a miscarriage. Open to any advice anyone may have on how to heal from having a miscarriage.

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You’ll never heal. You could go to counseling. I’m still traumatized by my first miscarriage at 22 and I’m 40. I’ve had 8 miscarriages in all. It’s made me scared, nervous and hypersensitive anytime I would get a positive pregnancy result. I wish the best for you.
Did your doctor tell you “why” you miscarried by looking at your fetus?

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I have had 4 in the past few years. The best advice I can give is educate yourself to better understand why. Not understanding cause me to doubt myself and question my future. Please try not to do that. It will be hard but know you are not alone and there are so many women on here willing to sit and chat with you on your dark days. You can message me any time. I try to be there for others because I didn’t have anyone when I went through it.

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