Why am I so attracted to someone 15 years older then me😭😭

Yes it feel wrong but at the same time so right I’ve known him for 5 years and it’s mutual but why am I like this I feel like my family would disown me

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Girrrrl 😂 live ur best life

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that’s the exact face I give my own self sometimes to be fair we didn’t know each other’s ages when we met

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Are we talking like, in your 20s and he’s in his 30’s? Or like you’re in your 30’s and he’s in his 40’s? How old are we talking 😂

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I genuinely wanna know why I’m like this or if it’s Normal😂🤦🏽‍♀️ but is 3 kids from the same bm really my best life😂😂😂😬

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I’m low 20’s he’s high 30’s but looked 25 when we met🤦🏽‍♀️

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Girl idk why but 15 years older made me think of him like this 😭😂

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But fr, you’re prob just attracted to his maturity and security

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Oof 😵‍💫😵‍💫

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that’s the only thing I come back to over and over again we’ve never been official but have had lil things here and there and he has been the most respectful man I have everrrr been with.

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im deadddd not at all he’s a very attractive man it’s not like every 40 year old i see either i just really love the person he is

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15 years is not a lot. I was in a 10 year relationship with someone 13 my senior and it started when I was 21… making him 34 at the time. My now husband is 10 years my senior. I’ve always been attracted to older men. It’s whatever. No one has ever given me a hard time about it. Not even my family. If he treats you well and respects you then go for it, girl!

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I really appreciate this support!

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Age isn't as big of a red flag but that it's not official. If you're in a relationship with someone who values you and respects and loves your child, then the fault will lie with your family for not approving.

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I'm 26 he's 62. Definitely looked no older than 40 when we met. It's been an adventure but we love each other dearly. Even getting ready to move in with each other in the upcoming months. My LO is his. I was told I couldn't have kids so the age difference didn't bother me. Now we have our little miracle and are building our life together. Don't feel bad about the age difference and do whatever makes you both happy!

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that’s an amazing story glad your happy thank you for sharing

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i am a ‘98 baby, turning 26 years this year. my fiancé is an ‘86 baby, turning 38 years this year. to make things more different, he has a daughter who is 5 years younger than me, just turned 21. & now we have an almost 9 month old 🤗🤪 if he treats you good & you want to try it, do it!

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can I message you? were in a super similar position. I don’t know how open you are about everything but I’d love to ask you a few questions.

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