I hacked my baby daddy’s mail and found out that he made a dating account and a sex meet up account on the 19th November 2023 around that time I saw he had an alarm that said delete “c-date” he saw me see it and told me that his brother made an account a couple of years ago under his name and that he saw an email and remembered and needed to delete it. Fast forward today it still hasn’t been deleted and says that it was created on the 19/11/2023 which contradicts what he said about it being made years ago. And to make matters worse there’s another account where naked women are begging for sex and sending disgusting pictures. In our relationship we have a no porn or seeing the opposite sex naked rule so this has come as a HUGE shock to me. A couple of weeks ago he broke up with me because he asked if while we where together back in 2017 if I watched porn. And I misheard the question and had said yes. He immediately said we needed a break. The hypocrisy. On the sex account he messaged someone saying “hello” on the 19/11/23 right now I’m in my bed while he is out with said brother it’s 2:38 am. And now I just feel like he’s cheating. Mind you a couple of years ago he gave me chlamydia and said it was because he used his brothers dirty underwear. So either he is lying on his brother or his brother is just a disgusting piece of work regardless I don’t want to be with him anymore. I feel disgusted. I haven’t said anything because he’s out right now but I have screenshots I wanted to know what to say. I know he will try to gaslight me and manipulate me so I don’t even know what to say or how to confront him. His first response will be that I’m trying to ruin the fact that he’s been out and the second response would be why I hacked his email address. I need advice I currently live with him and his family and Ive already contacted the council for a place but that’s until May so do I go there on Monday and tell them I’ve been kicked out??
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Honestly, I feel like you have the proof and have a conversation with him isn’t going to change what happened or make you want to stay. Just simply tell him you think it’s time to part ways. Better to avoid a fight and leave one okay terms if you can.
I feel like I need to get some answers. This is heartbreaking we have been together for 7 years and we have just had newborn. I want to make sure that I’ve tried and given him a chance to explain himself
I’m definitely thinking about talking to his brother. But I feel like he will lie for him. If he does so then I’m going to tell his brother that I will be telling his girlfriend what he’s been getting up too if he doesn’t tell me the truth. It’s either his relationship or he allows his little brother to own up to what he’s done.

Chlamydia from brothers dirty underwear? No 😂 he's done something to get it.... sounds dodgy, quite clearly a liar and feels guilty to break up with you about watching por n 7 years ago. Also the whole no porn or seeing being naked isnt attainable and would only drive the other to do it in secret. Call that man out!!