advice needed
i have this posted on incognito only bc i haven’t told many yet ab this
my husband and i just found out we’re pregnant with baby number 2.
im honestly having a rough time with the knowledge of being pregnant again only bc i wasn’t ready. and before everyone goes crazy with you should’ve been using protection, well i have a medical condition that effects my hormones and we didn’t think birth control was a good option considering.
i feel so guilt taking away time from my 1 year old that she was supposed to have with us before another baby as well as not knowing how the hell im going to raise or handle two little ones alone since my husband practically works all the time. im so nervous and scared. and i feel extremely guilty that im going to have to tell my 1 year old no when she only wants me bc ill be taking care of a new born. i’m a mess about this. i love this baby and truly want this baby i just don’t know how to cope with all the stress it could cause on my 1 year old. i feel like im hurting her in the process.
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Chrissy Horton on YouTube talks about these topics of concern in case you are looking for some comfort/reassurance like that. She has been a go to of mine on YouTube and instagram. Congratulations by the way!
That sounds stressful and overwhelming. I was 20 and raising a newborn a two-year-old and a three-year-old I know how overwhelming it is having kids so close in age ever need to talk. You can message me. I love listening.
I’m 19 weeks with twins and I totally understand I have no help, no “village “ and my son turned 1 on the 19th. Honestly things were just starting to get easier and better and I no clue how I’m gonna handle three kids. But I’ve just been looking at it from the positive perspective they are going to grow up together and be the closest friends maybe even share classes! I I think the most important part for me is making sure I find 1 on 1 time for my son when the twins come. But honestly this is good age for the craziness they wont really remember much. I wish you the best of luck and I’m here if you need anyone to talk to ❤️
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