eeeek

Just found out I’m pregnant with my second. My little girl is only 9 months 🙈 I thought I was ready & know it’ll be fine…but the emotions 🤣🙈 pure mum guilt for my little girl at the mo!!

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Congratulations! I just found out too! I have a little 2yr old.. but already worried if the first trimester will be difficult and if I can give him attention. Mum guilt is real!

Same girl! My first is only 5 months old. I wanted the gap that you have. I feel hella guilty. For both I don’t want to take away from the attention my first gets and I want ti be able to give my second the same amount of undivided attention my oldest gets now. Well I guess I have 8 months to figure it out 😳

congrats lovely!! Totally understand the guilt feeling and totally understand how you feel about balancing out your attention. Eeek 8 months. By the end of the year we’ll have 2 babies 🙈

Congratulations! Same and my little girl is 13 months old, never thought I’d have 2 under 2 🫣

congrats to you too lovely!! Eeeek 🤣🙈 it’s going to be crazyyy but so much fun I’m sure 😝 xx

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