Feeling lost and really upset
So I may be pregnant it was on purpose and I’m still living in my moms house bc of some other issues I didn’t tell her bc she has never accepted anything I’ve ever done and goes through my bank history and apparently my belongings whenever I don’t know about it and she found out about it. She threatened to kick me out if I do end up being pregnant and now I’m scared bc I don’t know what to do. Bc I’m almost positive I’m already pregnant haven’t tested yet but having tons of symptoms and I’m really scared that I’ll be homeless while pregnant or even with a baby.
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Can you stay with baby's father?
No for some reason he won’t talk to me right now
Not trying to be rude, but if you’re in this type of situation, why would you get pregnant on purpose?
because she had always seemed fine with it before so I thought it would be exciting for her to find out but I was apparently very wrong I was pregnant at 17 had a miscarriage but she had been so supportive then that I thought it would be the same and she would be happier bc I was an adult instead of a kid
I knew she monitored my money but had no idea she was going through my belongings
I’m not depending on her I’m renting out a room in the house as I needed the safety and she told me to come back home because I had someone stalking me for almost a whole year and I just ended up staying a little longer to help out around the house but I am quickly regretting it all
yeah, I think she might have been supportive because it’s hard going through a miscarriage and she wanted to be there for you.
No parent wants their child to go through bringing a child into the world in a less than ideal situation. I could also see it as her being upset that you didn’t even consider the fact that you would bring the child into her home. She might be okay with helping you get back up on your feet, but to assume she would be fine with a baby is a bit much tbh. I know I would be upset with my kid if he did that, and I know my mom would be upset if I did that. Especially if the father and I aren’t even speaking. Idk the whole thing seems like a mess and not thought through very well 😕😕 whether you end up being pregnant or not, I would work on getting your own place and showing that you can be responsible for yourself before being responsible for a child. 🩵 hoping everything works out for the best
thank you
Well said
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