This is our last and I will have all boys , but my other two where in winter and thus is a summer baby but I’ve only had a baby shower for my first a I put it together myself …. as well as no one wanting to really be there cuz they thought I was to young ( only 17 )
I feel like want the closure ? If people being excited and celebrating this baby , but now I feel like they will think I’ve already had a baby and it’s the same gender ,, thoughts?
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I heard a lot of people do "sprinkle", "nesting", or "diaper" parties. I think people love having a reason to celebrate. Just create a registry that works for your family.

Just have your baby shower and celebrate the joy of other baby! If someone doesn’t like it then they can stay home. It’s not about them or their opinions. Enjoy yourself!

I didn't do a baby shower for my daughter, she was early and I didn't have any friends in a new area. I'm doing a baby shower for my twin girls and my friends think it is amazing I'm doing a shower this time around. I say go for it if it's something you want