He’s been decent the last several months. Once I started bringing around a new man, he started to be impossible again. It’s his turn to take diapers to daycare. He told me he forgot and asked me to bring a few of my packs and that he would drop some off to my door after work. He usually holds up his end so I said no problem. But then something triggered him and he now he’s saying he’s not paying me back in diapers (none of us pay child support since we have 50/50 custody)
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Seems like he’s hurt and going through it emotionally and mentally if his child is around another father figure. He will get used to it and pipe down. I would try to encourage him and not taunt him about it. I don’t know how he is as a person but it looks like he’s definitely hurting and reacting because of it.

Whelp sounds like you need to go back to court because he’s literally giving you proof as to how he doesn’t want to coparent.

he begged for his family back and flew another girl across the country to the packers game and told me he went alone. Was sleeping with both of us at the same time. So I left, started dating again and now this

ahh I’m sorry to hear that. Well he’s just going to have to get over it then. Simple as that.

yeah but idk what to do now that he stole all my diapers from me

And I’m worried he’s going to keep doing this. It’s so stressful

very childish of him indeed. Well never mind I would definitely be talking about the stepfather then. You either stop being a baby or stay out of the way.

What a jerk.His Ego must be hurt..What a baby!!!

I am so sorry you’re going through this. Until he learns that his child is not a pawn to try to manipulate you he will keep using this until he learns that it won’t work to get his way. Also taking him back to court to show him that these are not gonna be tolerated games that he is playing. If that made any sense so sorry.

I know nothing about court. It’s overwhelming how do I even start and do I need to pay for a lawyer?

All we have is a parenting plan signed by a notary

Also I’m not even dating this guy I just invited him to my sons birthday because he’s a friend with a daughter my sons age and they play together sometimes at the trampoline park. and he’s blowing it up and being controlling

https://www.azcourts.gov/portals/31/parentingTime/PPWguidelines.pdf

I hope this helps a bit he was just looking for any excuse to start this behave it seems. I’ve attached two links and I hope it helps but I can ask my friend who lives there what she did with her ex husband

https://www.azcourthelp.org/finder/divorce/child-custody/31-planned-parenting-time

Diapers doesn’t seem worth arguing about. Especially talking about court seems a bit extreme when he’s having his kid 50% of the time.

Girl im literally going through the same thing with my childs father so you not alone but i make sure i send a full pack of diapers to them and keep 2 full packs at my house

Cold world lol he’s definitely jelly lol he still needs to do his responsibilities as a man but luckily it seems like yall have something good going

You can start with filing a petition for child support. You wouldn’t have to pay for a lawyer as it is through public court. You can choose to do it in your own with your own lawyer though

Hi Moms! Praying you are all well. 🌹
…I have an offtopic question. Do you know if it is better to start child support theough the local county court or via The state of Maryland? Whats the difference? Im in Columbia Howard County