Do you have any regrets? 👀

Time flies, do you have anything you wish you’d achieved, done differently, or avoided completely? Ps it’s never too late. 😉

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I wish I would have prepared more, taken more classes and asked for help setting up things for baby.

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I wish I had advocated better for myself and my babies and ask for another scan before deciding to take them out prematurely

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I wished I was prepared before getting pregnant

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I wish I’d done college straight out of high school, instead of after having kids.

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I wish I learned to take care of my body better

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I wish I finished school first

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I regret not following my interests in college. Instead, I settled for what sounded safe because of my parent’s influence.

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I wish I would have loved myself more and asked for help instead of being scared all the time and gave myself more time to grieve.biggest regret is not educating myself more.

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I wish I was a better mother to my son but I’m a first time mom people say I’m doing really great and others not so much

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Yes

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І wish і told father of my baby how і feel about his family from the beginning

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Without the things that have happened in my life I wouldn’t be who I am …… so no. 🩷

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My only regret is not finishing medical school. Now I'm struggling between jobs that don't pay enough. And it's hard because I could have had a career under my belt but because I choose my kids and let the man who I thought I was gonna be with forever go ahead with his career and I put mine aside. I didn't get this chance

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I wish I got therapy sooner for my mental disorders that I didn’t know I had until therapy

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I regret not showing my late fiance move love. Telling him I was proud of him. He strived for that. Before his passing he was broken. And I regret not showing him how much he was truly loved.

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Neurodivergence/ Mental Health Awareness isn’t a conversation that was had in my household. I’m learning so much about myself and my child now that we are both adults that I could have approached differently with proper understanding.

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I wish I had gotten married to my husband sooner.
I wish I had helped my body be more ready to give birth. I wish that I had researched different doctors so I didn’t get stuck.

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I regret building a life with the wrong person, and putting myself off for too long.

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Not asking for help when trying to settle my newborn in his bassinet he now only wants to sleep on me

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I wish I had learned to say no more in the past. Taking out loans for family and blindly trusting they’d pay on time if at all really messed things up for me when we were looking for a house because my credit had got so bad. That and finishing up my bachelors degree either before moving in with my now husband. We were long distance at the time and I feel like if I had waited a little bit longer (I do feel he wouldn’t have minded) or simply transferred over to a school in our current state I could’ve finished and been able to contribute more to our babies college fund.

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Investing all myself into my marriage with my ex

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Not really. Everything that happened to me was for a reason and just makes sense. Maybe I would've saved more money? I am still working on that lol

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Wish I’d spoken in public with ease just once!

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I regret listening to an old boss/friend when it came to college. She was a toddler mom/business owner/full time student. I had no kids and a full time job. She made me feel like I was wasting time by not going to school full time. My GPA tanked. It took a few years to build it back up. Had I done things on my time/terms I would have figured out that wasn’t my path sooner.

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My only regret is not going back to uni and studying something different and getting married. So that’s two right there

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I had many regrets in the past but it does not stop me from pursuing my happiness now. I’m now trying my best to live life to the fullest. Hello 2024 and I wish the same to everyone. You got this:))

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I regret one thing but it’s about my one child I wish I tried at introducing food to her sooner.

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No because I wouldn’t have the life I have now, even all the horrible things it made me who I am.

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Yes about my future here after 12 years struggles about my study and both jaws operations treatment
I wish it finnished soon I get a new teeth 🦷

They took out so many before operations n other thing 🤲

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Too bad I can’t edit or deleted
I am not feeling well now but try to answer 😰🙏

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For sure

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Having a bf in H.S and spending too much time with him instead of spending time making new friendships 🤦🏽‍♀️

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I wouldn't talk to my grandmother in her last movement

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I wish I would’ve set my dream career of opening a booth as an esthetician into place before having my babygirl

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Yes an ex

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No regrets. Each of us has a journey that is unique.

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I regret not taking MY CREDIT serious at a young age. So now at 33, I'm paying for it.

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I regret not putting myself first more often, finally trying to do that.

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Tons but I'll livw

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Hola, Hablan español?

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Choosing my dr

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Second guessing myself in my 20s. Listen to your gut.

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Biggest regret is staying with my daughters father just because I don’t want her to grow up in a broken home like I did and I should leave but I can’t even after all the things he’s done to me.

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Not getting more tattoos being getting pregnant

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Sky diving before being pregnant

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I have faced a lot of ups and downs in life like everyone else here, but I have no regrets bcz everything that happened shaped me into who I am today. I am not living my dream life but I still feel blessed, the best is yet to come 🤞🏻

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omg yes!

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Staying with my children's father longer than I should've. Im in therapy because of it

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I regret how much time I’ve wasted having anxiety that I would lose my partner. The number of months when tallied up scares me because he’s still here and so am I.

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