I love my one year old but I’m not sure that I want another . I feel like it’s been way too hard for me. Does anyone feel the same ?
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I feel you, if I had part time help I can see it. That what I needed this first year, more help

I feel the same. 😢

Oh definitely! I would love for my little girl to have a sibling, but at the same time I’m content just having her

It’s just so difficult .

I'm happy to have my one and only. I get to shower him with all my love and attention.

I felt this way for 4yrs..the big reason why I decided to have another has silly as it sounds is because when I die I don't want her to feel alone going through it..I lost my dad and it opened my eyes

Ive been feeling the same way lately I love my son so much but he is WILD he definitely keeps me on my feet all seconds of the day and seeing that idk if I could have 2 😅 but also I am doing it all by myself because his dad works out of town a lot and I have no family where I live so it does get really challenging mentally for me when I quite literally can never get a break..

My husband asked me again if I plan for another. With the way I haven’t been supported, I definitely don’t want another one. I’m struggling mentally and physically and have been so damn tired that another one would break me. It sucks but it’s how I feel. I also never fit into my family ever and I don’t want my child or children to ever feel that way

I always knew I'd be one and done

It’s been very difficult because I’d love to have another but with no support and the way my delivery went I’m not sure if I want to risk it

I would be on board for one more and so would my husband except for a few things. Mental health, another would stress him out and it would be very hard with all of us dealing with that. Finances, we really want to invest in education and experiences. I did not labor well. The morning of my C-section I was resting, my mother in law arrived. She told him that I went through hell to bring Evie here and he looked at how pale I was, having reactions to medications making me sick, it was hard on both of us and he does not want to willingly put me through that again

I’m one and done. Raising a baby alone is so hard and nobody has made time to see him either. I’m in the process of trying to leave his dad too which has been a nightmare. I feel guilty at times that he won’t have a sibling but I’m
Not close with either of mine so I’m sure he will be ok