Just found out I’m pregnant with my third child
I have a 2+ (will be 3 in June) daughter and a 14 months old son, found out I’m pregnant again on Friday. It’s making me feel so depressed, especially knowing l took a morning after pill the following morning it happened . I don’t know what to do, the two l have are already hand full, l Dt think l can take on another one. I spoke to “MSI” which is an Abortion clinic, just for advice and support. My husband thinks it’s not a good to consider abortion, but he works all the time and never really helps much with the kids so he doesn’t really understand what I’m going through on a daily basis. I am already feeling guilty to even consider abortion, but he’s just making me feel 10 times worse. I don’t know what to do. Any advice and thanks xx
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Your body, your choice! It's important to put your existing children and yourself/your mental health first! For the sake of your whole family. Good luck with your decision. You deserve love and support no matter what you decide. 💖
If he is so set against you having an abortion I'd leverage that to get him to help out more. (Regardless of your ultimate decision) and who knows if he mans up and helps out enough you might decide you can actually handle a 3rd.
My friend felt like this when she found out about her 3rd pregnancy last year, she even had the abortion booked. She decided not to go through it last minute, she says it’s the best decision she ever made. The baby stages will pass and a child is a blessing forever.
In saying that. You have the final say.
it is completely up to you! it is your body and you’re the one taking care of the rest of the children. know that whatever you decide to do is okay. my bit of advice is to think about it and take your time before making a decision as you don’t want to regret either keeping or aborting. also definitely talk to your husband about how you’re feeling, he should consider your feelings too x
Aww thanks guys, really appreciate your advices. I will definitely think about it more and also speak to my husband how on I’m feeling xxxx
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