in December 2023 Babies 🇬🇧

I hate my partner for ruining mothers day

My partner said he'd make me any meal I want for mothers day so I asked for what i wanted. I'd had nothing to eat all day and still haven't and its 10.25pm. Baby was crying and I said hold him on a certain position for longer and he went off his nut at me shouting at me and telling me he already did that ... but he can't have as I said do longer than previously. He stormed off to shop and was texting what potatoes do I want and I refused to answer as I said he needs to apologise and I'm sick of him thinking he can treat me like shit then just act like nothing happened over and over again. He couldn't say sorry without an argument on the side and trying to justify his actions. I ended up in A&E with baby as I accidentally dropped my phone on his head whilst holding him and its eaten me alive all day. Get home and my partner still continues the bullshit and refuses to even try make it right. I've done nothing but cry all day and haven't had anything to eat either. I became unwell since birth and can't even cook for myself yet due to it. He doesn't even care he's ruined my day and I've realised he doesn't care in general about me. I'm so fucking angry. If I ever upset someone I'm always going out of my way to make it right but he couldn't care less. He's ruined my first mothers day and after the hell I went through to have my baby and almost die etc I'm livid. I don't wanna be with him anymore

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Sorry this has happen do u have any family or friends u can stay with for few days

I hope you are okay lovely, you definitely deserve more respect than how you’ve been treated today and that’s everyday not just Mother’s Day but today he could and should have been better for you. Just know your worth as hard as it is aswell💜

If you do end up staying with him make sure he knows how you feel about it for further down the line at a point when he isnt gonna kick off and he will listen about how he made you feel, my first mothers day my partner woke up about 1pm and punched a hole in the door, he then went mad and I spent the next week at my parents - I could only assume because it was a day specifically not aimed at him where he should try to help a bit more, then the next year I got a card, this year I got nothing but he did do the shopping by himself (he hates coming with me to do it) and helped more with both children. It's not great but it's better than nothing and he has tried a bit more than any other day, but he absolutely wrecked my first mothers day, to make it worse he knew how I'd feel about what he did because of a past relationship. I think mothers day comes first for a reason, if he can't even pretend to appreciate all that you do don't reward him for what is most likely the bare minimum

It's scary how as women we have such a low bar for ourselves and what we deserve from partners! I'd already separated from mine before yesterday, didn't expect anything, got nothing, and just focused on me and baby for the day as I already knew 🤷🏼‍♀️

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