URGENT decision to make.
I booked a photoshoot for today at 1. Since I don't have any pictures pregnant and my husband never takes pictures at me.
He and I had a fight since yesterday night.
I have been trying to fix it since I started the problem by reacting "too much" towards him.
I have been apologizing and crying so much trying to fix it but seems like he does not respond. I feel very very bad, since I'm concerned about my relationship and also I'm concerned about not having any picture pregnant (I'm 33 weeks now).
I'm very sad and I would like to cancel since obviously I feel bad, I have been crying tons and my husband doest want to go.
Should I cancel or should I still go on my own?
Keeping in mind times doesn't go back on pregnancy..
BTW my husband didn't care much about the pictures since I told him I had book the session, it seems like it's not even important for him.
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It doesn’t sound like you caused the problem at all… absolutely go and get those pictures!!! Let him regret not going with you if he wants to be petty.
It might make you feel better and will be something you have of you and your baby x
Yes go and get the pictures!!!!
You need to have a record!!
Lots of people do solo pregnancy shoots!
Relax and enjoy it!
Still go ahead, enjoy it for you and use it as a bonding session for you and baby xx
Go solo! Pamper yourself now, and go 🙂 you will regret not going! See it as a keepsake for YOU and for your little one xx
Your pregnancy should be recorded for you, not him. Get the photos💕
I know that my anxiety wouldn’t let me go but i know I’d absolutely regret it so much. Please go! I think it’s nice to go on your own too. It’s your experience. You’re carrying the baby and I think that’s so special
Go, loads do pregnancy shoots without there husbands in the pictures 📸. What ever the argument was about I'm sure you both just need space and time to cool down before talking it through. Xx
Update 1 (11:00): Now he wants to go.. And I don't want him to be there.
You will 100% regret not going. You should absolutely go on your own and he can join if he changes his mind. At least you'll have those pictures with you and baby. Enjoy the day. A fight should never get in the way of having such a precious moment recorded and it sounds like you've been really trying to mend things and he just is not meeting you halfway. Not worth ruining the day for something like that. Hope the pictures turn out nice!
Why don’t you have some solo and a couple with him in? Deffo have some solo though xx
Update 2(11:57): We are in the bus now.. I feel so miserable and I feel like crying every 5 seconds, we are not talking at all. I really don't know how am I going to take those pictures. I cant even see him
Just remember you are there for a special moment between you and your baby, focus on you and if he wants to get involved in a few photos then let him. It may bring you back together realising in the moment what you’re there for x
It might be good to start the shoot on your own. And then invite him for some photos. The intimacy and closeness might help break the ice between the two of you and you might feel like you can both talk better after that? Hopefully you'll have a great time xx
Your husband's an asshole for treating you like that, you're carrying his child he should be putting you on a pedestal
Thank you for all of you who replied.. The pictures were good. But still he is being weird towards me. I told him I really can't take being in bad terms, and I barely can keep living, I'm so tired and in a very bad condition. So I live in denial all the time. I just so tired.
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