Advice

I know this might be a difficult thought but what if that date with the other women didn't go good and now he realizes what he has and that he doesn't want anyone but you ... Sometimes some people have a hard time realizing what they want before they know what they don't want ...I'd say try sleeping in the same bed (not like sex or anything) but actually sleeping ...cuddling ... Just talk about the things you like about each other...as much as me and my partner fight we know that if we really want to stay together and work things out this is how we do it ...if you weren't dating i don't think it's fair to be upset about the date ...

we live in the same house and he was asking me to fix things while on dating sites and meeting her for a date shows how much he wanted to fix things

If you wanna be together here's what I'd do
-sleep in the same bed
- compliment eachother
- show appreciation for little things like doing the dishes
-talk about the things that really bother you and if they change these things then tell them how hard you have seen them working to fix your relationship
-write down all the things that bother you in your notes and pick one day of the week where you both can sit down and talk about all these things ...take responsibility for the things you do wrong and if your reading something on your notes and you don't remember the situation it was probably not serious enough that it should effect y'all in the long run
-ask him every once in awhile how he's doing and if he is feeling okay (men can get depressed too) he might not tell you the truth right away but if u notice he's upset maybe try doing things that you know will make him feel better


Everyone likes to feel complimented and appreciated

Oh wait I just saw your reply maybe try bring it up to him ... explain that it bother you and you don't believe he actually wants to be with you

Tell him that if he wants to be with you y'all need to build more trust ...the sites have to go