Unsure what to do
I was talking to my husband, and it somehow came out that he is attracted to trans gender women, which isn't an issue. The problem I have is he wants to have a threesome with a transgender woman and he doesn't care whether or not they've transitioned just as long as their female passing. I'm not attracted to transgender women or women in general and I've made that clear.
I'm not sure where to go from here. What would you ladies do?
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Hate to sound harsh but if he’s thinking about it and wants it. It’s always going to be on his mind to do it. He’s going to find a way to do it with or without you once he can find a reason why, whether it be you all have an argument or etc. And most trans women are female passing but haven’t received the surgery for below so that another conversation you will need to have cause he may be attracted to trans women with the male part. Good luck 🩷
@Cheey That was my thought! Like if the male part is still present, it is that part of the attraction. He says no but I think he's scared to admit it. Thank you for the advice tho!
Honestly if he needs to explore his sexuality there always maybe a reason why he confided in you which is a good sign as well. I’m sure you’re conflicted and confused. Honestly I would be to! Reach out if you need to talk. I have no experience whatsoever but I can always just listen anyways
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