Feeling hurt and don’t know what to do
So my fiancé has been texting one of his ex coworkers constantly recently and last night I went through his phone. The first thing I saw was pictures of his ex pulled up on their messages, Facebook, and Snapchat. There were pictures of her body and a nude still in their shared photos and although these are old pictures and they haven’t been talking I’m still really hurt. In the past he’s kept pictures of girls in his recently deleted that he finds on Instagram and some of these were girls that we both knew which is what really hurts and kinda disgusted me. He had a picture of his coworker in there at one point and came up with some excuse for it. It makes me feel like I’m not good enough and he needs to find girls who still have flat tummies and non breastfeeding boobs. Idk if I should confront him or maybe go through his phone again tonight idk. I just know I probably won’t be able to talk to him without being angry.
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girl, talk to him & let him know that if he doesn’t respect you as your fiancé then leave him bc girl he’s not worth it. he should respect you regardless how you look. you gotta know your worth girl! i mean it out of respect, if he really loved you he wouldn’t be doing that. their are men out there that will love you for you & wont go out looking for other girls
thank you! Your right I need to know my worth and I don’t deserve this disrespect. We’ve been having other problems and loosing him and becoming a single mom is terrifying to me but being hurt like this a lot makes it almost not worth it yk.
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