Doctors?
So I’m currently in my 3rd trimester with my second and I have a toddler too. I always look at my oldest baby and think “she doesn’t even look like me” and I feel like she’s just not mine, if that makes sense, like I’ve wanted her for the longest time I just can’t wrap my head around I actually made her. Is this normal? I have this surge of love for her at random times when we’re cuddling (she never does cuddle) I don’t know.
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It’s a massive adjustment becoming a mum. For some people it doesn’t happen overnight. Keep bonding and practicing skin to skin even now. Baths together, cuddling watching movies, trying new things together.
I always think watch what you tell yourself some thoughts are absurd it might help to write your thoughts down and read them later in the week or months later. What you worry about now might not be a worry later so over time it’ll help manage your worries. If you think you need help though just talk to someone it’s ok to do that at any point xxx
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