What to do I have no support really
I am currently pregnant with a man whom I have been seeing for four years, but he has not made any commitment to me. He is much older than me, and I have witnessed numerous women coming in and out of his house. I have also found letters and pictures of other women, but he has no clear answers when I confront him. I am unable to speak up or express my feelings as he is inconsistent with me. When I ripped up a picture of him with another woman, he became angry and since then, he has been closed off and unwilling to engage in conversation. When I asked if he was taking her back, he simply said yes and told me to stop harassing him.
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I think I’d cut my losses in terms of a relationship and focus on baby and co-parenting. If he is not willing to commit to the relationship I wouldn’t settle for what he’s offering
thank you that’s all I want is to co parent but he’s not answering my calls after confronting him
before I found out about these situations he didn’t believe in co parenting now it’s best
Let things cool off. This man sounds like he’s been using you and he doesn’t sound like he’ll make a very good dad but I try not to judge.
Just concentrate on you & baby for now, as that is what is most important.
yes I have the worst headache and stomach cramps
If he is really like this, stop ur connection with him. Because he proved u he is not interested in u or ur baby ;( thats sad, but accept this reality before its late,and build ur life for u and ur baby 🙏🙏🙏🙏
he told me to not contact him unless it’s about the baby so I will be a baby mama
Please remember pregnancy is the easy part, when baby comes u need him around24/7 and if he cant give u that, make as much as money u can now and save up for maybe Nancy or house keeper so he didn't show up, u can take care of yourself, we have to be wise, i wish i had tiny bit of brain when i was pregnant;(
love this response thank you
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