Did u have sex while high risk?

I feel like doctors don’t inform me about much so I’m unsure if it’s safe to have sex. I have a small cervix with a tiny opening and nobody informed me if sex is safe or not they didn’t even tell me I’m high risk I found out because I saw my ultrasound results online. My bf is super patient but he misses our intimacy and I do too I’m just too scared to try anything. My next OB appointment is next week but I wanna know if anyone with a similar experience can tell me if it’s safe or not.

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I was told to abstain from any sexual activity due to being high risk.. haven’t had sex all through my pregnancy and my husband has been super patient

I'm high risk due to a past pulmonary blood clot in my lungs when I was 21. I'm on blood thinner's daily during this pregnancy. My doctors have not said anything about it either way.

I would say doing makes you feel comfortable. And if you have concerns, ask your Doctor beforehand.

okay I’ll wait until my appointment to do anything.

I was told light sex that wasn’t extremely rough or anything was okay to do but not extremely straining! I’m in my third trimester now and I’ve been having sex with my boyfriend since finding out.

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Being high risk is a blanket statement. I have placenta previa and it’s unsafe for me to have sex right now. Not the same as your high risk. I would ask your OB/midwife for clarification.

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Did u have sex while high risk?

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