People be pissing me off!

Why do people say the most nastiest stuff to you while you’re pregnant and they find out that you’re a single mom. Its annoying, like my child isn’t going to come from a good upbringing all because she has a deadbeat dad. That doesn’t mean Im not going to set a great example. I have a career, a house, and stable. I hate it, my entire pregnancy, I haven’t heard anything positive from mfs. All I hear is “ I wouldn’t have kept it, if he didn’t want it” “You’re going to struggle so bad doing it all alone” like sthu. This is my first child and I’m so happy to be a mom. I’m deserving like everyone else.

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Congratulations, and you're going to be an incredible mom! I've been doing it single from the start, and I've loved every minute of it. Don't let those asshats discourage you or make you doubt your decision. You made the best choice for YOU and YOUR BABY. Pregnancy definitely taught me who my true friends and allies are, and it was not any of the people who made those types of comments. I hope you have an incredible journey 💖

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Stop sharing your news with people who will receive it that way. Sounds like they’re not really in your corner

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Thank you! I’m trying to remain optimistic, pregnancy definitely shows the true colors of people. I’ve cut so many people off. Thank you for your kind words and support

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yeah that’s true, I just never thought I’d be treated that way, people be weird as hell

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Some people suck but don’t let them suck the joy out of this experience. I made the decision to have my baby boy knowing the dad wanted nothing to do with us because being a mom is all I’ve ever wanted. Most people don’t understand and definitely pass judgement. I know the feeling sucks but this is a magical time for us and just trying to ignore them and remind myself of why I’m doing this. We will be great moms and our babies will be loved and cared for. Stay positive!! You deserve this!

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Thank you Cassie! ❤️

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