How to CoParent Best For A Child

My daughter is 3, her dad just moved in with us because he is homeless so I decided to help him out. Our relationship pretty much ended last year or the year before that but I thought the love and intentions were still there. I am seeing this man for what he really is and I hate it. I hate that I had a baby with a lie, a joke and little boy. Literally cried blood sweat and tears for and over him and now it makes me sick to my stomach. Everything about him is annoying and he’s a bitch. How do I tell him he has to go and how do I keep it from not affecting our daughter who “loves him so much” when he’s in sight.

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Just state boundaries with him and have him find a place to go.

Oh and let me add he has been here a month and had only given me $50 and asked for $10. He feels entitled yells and gets mad that I don’t want his dog on the couches / bed tho he doesn’t listen but when he does he curses the dog out so violently it scares my daughter and I. He has not worked and doesn’t plan to. I’m not working either and what I have I have to split with his ungrateful ass. Not because he asks me but because he makes me feel like I have to because he has nobody etc etc but he does have his other bm who he does not help either

@Shailynn what do you say is a decent time frame? He’s already been here a month and I’m scared he’s gonna have squatter rights

It sounds bad but like, I would call the cops and report that you’re giving him a 30 day notice and then print the report out. Verbally give him 30 days, and a written notice. Once the 30 days is up, do not let him in and set his stuff outside. It sounds like he is going to be difficult to get rid of, so I suggest having police there for a peaceful escort if you think it will get bad.