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My sons father left 4 days before his first birthday I took our son and all the stuff my family bought him with us and told him get yourself in order and get him a bed a car seat diapers clothes all that and we can do the custody stuff. Well he is 4.5 now and still never spent a night or more than a coupke hours every few mo ths now down to twice a year witb this kid. But I get engaged and now married and he keeps saying he wants to meet my husband. Keep in mind thus man is very confrontational. Has put hands on me spit on me put holes in walls. Threatened to kill himself infront of our kid. Choked me against a truck then told everyone I unprovoked tried to hit him with a bat. I want this man no where near my husband. When we do our like now twice a year cisitatio (all he has to do to set this up is give me a time and a date and we usually make it work except one time he wanted me to do a visitation on christmas) he moced about 2.5-3 hours from where we lived when he left I moced 30 minutes from that location. At what point can I legally say enough is enough? He pays no child support we never went to court I want nothing other than him to leave the child since he has nothing to do with him now
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Look into giving up his rights so your husband can adopt
I agree with . And he has no need to meet your husband. His inconsistency is unfair and it’s not right for your child to have to go through that especially when you’re now married to a man who probably loves your child. Take him to court.
@Tez my only fear of taking him to court is they will give him shared custody. He is an abuser and his family is full of drug addiction and pedophiles who he lets around his other kid and he let around mine when we where together. I can not let him go alone with him for his saftey. Would court be the best option?
Tough cause the kids is still young and I assume you didn't report the abuse. He prob also might not sign his rights away either. Talk to a lawyer. I wish you the best!
yea I didnt I just kinda took it or I just fought back and it just got worse. But thank you for your advise!
@Sarah ✨ he is on the birth certificate but we never did a paternity test. Theres no chance of anything on that but we never did anything all we did was sign a birth certificate and I floated the home for the year we all where together
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