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White pages website. If you know his address or personal info you can see who his parents are or folks related to him. The info may not be up to date as far as addresses but if they’ve lived in the same place for years youll see it. To get some attention file for child support and use his parents address to send the subpoenas. Good luck to you boo.
www.fastpeoplesearch.com might help find them . Is he already married or in a relationship because that sounds crazy but he doesn’t want to be involved in his child’s life and is keeping it a secret.
write! i've thought about it a lot.. If I allowed his parents in her life It would def be in supervised visits till i feel comfortable enough with them and understand a dynamic, Same with even allowing him around her. Ide like to think he may come around in the future, we did talk about tht at one point when he said "im just not ready for kids rn". &No, as of the time we hung out he didn't give married at all. More so, Def came off a lot younger than he was &capitalized on the idea of been "a bachelor" lmao. Honestly though, i didn't dig enough into what he really had going on besides partying or us hanging out, so who knows. Honestly It definitely wasn't supposed to result in us having a child. &Child support seems like the easiest rout but i want to atleast reach out to his parents first and break this news before they find out in tht way. I truly want my child to have a chance at a good familly, grandparents, aunties, uncles etc. I do know his familly come from very strict marine
background which is another reason i feel he is afraid to tell them. Either way i want my baby to have a familly. A better one off than mine at the least. My father and grandparents have passed my mom is ill &my sisters have began using drugs so my familly has fallen apart which is a huge reason why i left... I just want the best for my baby and I alone will def work my hardest to give that to her but i don't think its fair to write off her doners side of the familly been that she already won't have a dad. Especially when they don't even know she exists. Thats my dilemma tho. atp im considering hiring a P.I. lol
either way though, thanks for the response ladies! It helps to talk about this type of thing lol. get opinions on the matter.
@BriGirl that website was an instant hit! ✅ lmao
Hey just came across your post, sorry that you have to deal with this I really can’t even imagine. All I can say is that with all the articles and post we see about guys attempting to or harming their children if I was in your situation I wouldn’t. I’d be too scared that he’d end up having access to my child that he clearly doesn’t want and he’ll end up doing something but that’s just me. I’d definitely out his old ass tho bc at 40 your scared to own up to the choices you’ve made?? I think that’s pretty insane. Best of luck to you and your baby tho in whatever you decide!