My boyfriend broke up with me
My boyfriend broke up with me because his 17 & 15 year old brother and sister told him that I want the 17 year old brother. I’m disgusted with the 3 of them because I would never and not to mention I’m 8 mons pregnant. It’s hurtful because he’s so easily to believe anything people tell him. I never have been interested in his lil brother if anything I been a good big sister in law to both his siblings and his other younger siblings. If anything they come to me for advice and support and when they need it i do my best to give it and also his younger brother is a teen father I was a teen mother so I do see him struggling a lot and try look out for him because I get it ya know & his sister obviously I been a 15 year old girl but she’s been in the fast stage where guys are her number 1 priority and I been defending & looking out her for her but now I see why her family is always taking down … any ways he told his family out baby shower is cancelled and called me out my name and hasn’t even bother to check on our son I know some of yall gonna say I don’t need that or deserve it and I know that but it’s the fake bs it’s the listening to lil kids it’s disrespect and betrayal ! I told his mother I don’t want none of her kids around my baby and she agreed and understood and said she doesn’t agree with none of them because my bf was planning something big for me and he’s acting like his father & horrible to me . He told me to stay away from his family & because I got so mad I said I was gonna pull up to his job and go off cause he called me a bitch and believing his family over me and I did say he wouldn’t say that In front of my brothers or diss me I. Front of my family he said he would so I just went left from there cause now I want to go off because last time he let his step bros diss me behind my back and I’m just hurt based off his actions cause now he just ruined everything
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Really feel for you! Hope you at least have your family’s support x
Kinda but they kinda can tell he’s been and ass to me and don’t like it at all so I feel really alone
At the end of the day it is your relationship with your ex, he shouldn’t listen to his younger siblings. It’s quite an accusation to make of you. It sounds like to me they were worried to not have him around anymore. Defo try and talk some sense into him but don’t go into his workplace. It won’t go down well and just get some space before contacting. He’s being stupid tbh xx
Maybe you deserve better than him hun? Just hope he behaves himself when co parenting. Does the siblings get that he wil still have legal rights to the child and have the child in his life?? X
Imo it all sounds quite childish. Your boyfriend should not just believe anything anyone tells him. Maybe wait for things to calm down, have some space , don't go to his work as that doesn't' look good. Have a chat and discuss everything. You need to rest and don't need this stress. Put yourself and baby as priority.
I agree it is between us but he always running telling his family our buisness. Good & bad . And it is so is his brother said he felt I was too close and talk to him too much or I wasn’t on his brother as much as I was him 😂🤣 I said when was I ever on you ?& if you really truly felt this way, then you should’ve said something off the first uncomfortable intention and honestly never talk to me because I spend a lot more time hanging out with his mom than anything and even if you didn’t wanna tell your brother right away you could’ve told your mom how you felt he just got quiet and then he tried to say so much more other stuff and I’m just like you know what you’re a kid stop fucking talking to me and just stay away from me. I tried to be nothing but a big sister and you’re twisting shit around and I don’t even be near you like that. and if all this is so far true, why are you waiting until right now to say something.
I kinda did have a conversation with him yesterday, but it went left. He just was still being disrespectful and defending them And no they don’t understand none of that I really feel like they’re just jealous because yes, he has been spending a lot more time with me since we kinda been together and I think they’re bad but the brother has a girlfriend and my boyfriend even said that if the tables returned, his brother would choose his own kid and his girlfriend over him any day he wouldn’t believe his brother or listen to him
oh I most definitely do you’re right about that but anyways, no they don’t care about legal rights and have to be in the babies life. That’s what they want. They want him not to be around so they can have them to himself and I told him they can have them you’re doing me a favor and I did tell him and his mom that they’re not welcomed around my baby they can’t touch my baby. They can’t see my baby and I want them to stay the fuck away and she agreed and said she understands because she’s never once got that impression that I was interested in this time but she knows that I’m in love with my boyfriend soI’m not gonna stress on it too much because I know I’ve never been like that towards them. They’re just mad because he was gonna take me on a baby mood and spoil me. They get very jealous when they attention is not on them I’m starting to see that. I just didn’t think they would do that to me.
I wasn’t really gonna ever go to his job. I just said that because I was upset said a lot of stuff because I was upset because he was being disrespectful. My feelings were hurt and I was being emotional but I wasn’t gonna actually act on it. I’m not that stupid. I am gonna let things calm down because all he does is stress me out and just focus on me and my baby I said my last piece of him through text I left it alone that on him because at the end of the day he put his family over the new family he’s created And the return, he even said so himself that they wouldn’t do it for him, but he would believe them over me or anybody else any day
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