I told my employers that I needed mat leave and then I got royally screwed over and had a miscarriage. I wouldn’t tell anyone anything. The bare minimum mat leave notice. Even then I would still be dubious as trying to do the right thing only made everything worse for me. Good luck
@Lauren I would only keep it quiet until 12 weeks which is also after the 1:1. It's a very toxic work place, so I kind of feel I don't owe them anything. They would ask.
@MJ I'd keep it from other colleagues until I could no longer hide it. Ahh so confused what I would do
You don’t have to say anything to your employer .. and they can’t ask .. If they do, you can say, when I have news I will share with you
Don’t tell your employer - keep it on a need to know basis. My employer was very supportive throughout my failed transfers, by the time of my third and successful transfer, my manager had left the company. I kept it all strictly private (I’m generally like that as a person anyway) and only spoke about it when it was necessary and even that came with minor office politics. If you feel you are being passed over on opportunities, could you say that on your 1:1?
@Zara I mentioned it in my 1:1 last year when my manager changed. This one is so much better, but obviously everything comes from above and fed through. I may be getting way ahead of myself yet, either way I will be saying it again
I wouldn’t say it’s failed because they will know you lied as it will be pretty difficult to hide eventually. I just wouldn’t say anything…would your employer directly ask if it’s worked if you don’t say anything? I believe you don’t have to inform your employer until 25 weeks by law (not sure if this is international) x