I’m scared…

Hi I’m a teen mom I’m only 17 and my mom doesn’t know I’m pregnant and I’m 10 weeks and I don’t know what to do
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It’s best to open up to her . Your pregnancy would go so much smoother with the support of ur mom

Sometimes it can be really hard to tell a parent. I’m almost 22 and live on my own and I was TERRIFIED to tell my parents. But in the end it’ll all work out alright. I would suggest telling your mother to avoid the stress of not telling her and keeping it to yourself. You’ll need as much support as you can get❤️ I hope it goes well and I’ll be praying for you!!

I agree, definitely be open. The build up of stress while you wait will only be worse. And stress isn't good for you and baby. I don't know what your relationship is like with your mom. But I am hoping it will be a calm conversation. If you aren't sure whether you're keeping the baby, then tell your mom you want her opinion on options. Or if you do want to keep the baby, you can even ask her to help you look in to preparing and seeing what that could look like for your life moving forward.

Open up you want to have as much support as you can I was terrified to tell my mom and I didn’t even live with the lady we over 500 miles apart but she is my number one supporter in this

@Jesika my mom and I have a rocky relationship it’s kinda of distant. I want to keep the baby, the father knows and he is really supportive and he is helping a lot he takes me to my appointments and everything to make sure our baby is okay but my mom doesn’t even know I was sexually active

I completely understand. I’m 20 and 11 weeks pregnant. I was terrified of what my mom was going to say even though I’m an adult, have my own place and a husband. It can be SO scary especially when you don’t know what their reaction will be. My biggest advice is be open…it’s so hard and so scary but eventually she will know. It’s better for you to tell her instead of her finding out.

I was a teen mom too and I was so scared when I found out I was pregnant. I told my mom and I was so nervous - she did freak out but eventually calmed down and helped me figure out what to do. She and my dad were so supportive and helped me raise my son. He is now a wonderful and well adjusted teenager and my parents are so happy they became grandparents and were able to enjoy their grandson at a relatively young age. I hope you are supported like I was in any decision you make!

Id tell her. I was 18 when I had my first. She’s 9 months now and I just found out I’m pregnant again.. I still live with my mom too…

I was in the same situation with my first daughter very scared but I opened up and yes she was upset very but she finally came around to having a grand baby in the house when she came into the world long as I finished school and still be a mom cuz I’ll do whatever for my daughter it’s best u tell her rather u just pull her to the side away from everybody it wasn’t intentional but it happened now she’s here missing her everyday

i completely understand im also gonna be a teen mom im currently 18 and my bf is 17. when i told my mom she was really supportive but on the other hand my dad sat me down and basically said that he’ll support me but we may have ruined our teen hood or wtv you wanna call it, on the other hand tho now i have two both supportive parents who will help with everything, but my bfs mom that’s definitely gonna be bad bc me and her aren’t that close and she’s just gonna be disappointed what i’d say for you is if you tell her expect the worst that could happen than after you’d think to yourself that it wasn’t that bad considering you were expecting the worst.

Hey, I was 19 so only a few years older and I was so scared I threw up. I ending up lobbing the test at her and saying ‘pregnant’ and that was all😂 remember- their first reaction is NOT their overall feeling. No matter how she reacts, she will come around. Allow yourself to be ready. But trust me, you can be an amazing mum at any age and once you’re 23 (like I am now) and you have a toddler with more independence, you’re gonna be glad you got it out the way😂x

I was 16 the first time I got pregnant. I came home with a friend and her mom to talk about it. I broke down crying and my mom instantly knew. It wasn’t easy and even harder because I miscarried at 8 weeks. The sooner you tell your mom the better so she can help you. But be prepared for her to be upset. That’s going to happen no matter what unfortunately. I’m sure she loves you so hold on to that.

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