I need some advice đ©
Hi everyone,
My order girl is 3 years old 7 months now sheâve been giving me such an attitude I sometimes canât handle her just pisses me off. When she did something bad she knows she did bad and she just looking at me and saying âsorry mommy I said sorry are you happy now ? â other things like she hits and pinches her younger sister when I not watching them like bullying her soooo much. If I got too mad at her she starts acting weird. Going to the back yard looking for something she can destroy. I am trying so hard to telling or asking her nicely not just saying âno! donât do that! â but I am exhausted how she acts with no respect if itâs few times then I can handle but it happens whole day and I donât like myself that I canât figure it out to be a better mom.
I need some advice how I should react and communicate with her moreâŠ
I am sorry youâre going through this. Iâm gonna need a bit of more information. Iâm not a pro but my 3 yr old daughter started throwing tantrums as well specially when she comes back from her dadâs. I would suggest something I do. Is set a full on boundary with her. I donât know how close you guys are or how she expresses love or affection. Mine likes hugs and being babied. But I have told her directly I donât listen or talk to her nicely if she doesnât reciprocate. If she yells. I do too. It may sound childish or dumb. But it works for me. I tell her if you donât like something. You communicate. You donât yell or throw stuff around. I never threatened her because I know it backfired before. But I do try to treat her as I would like to be treated. After all she did get my attitude. Put your foot down. Show her whoâs the adult