Feeling selfish

Just had a baby 6 months Ago and 7 weeks pregnant don’t plan on keeping because I don’t want to feel like I’m not giving my baby my all I’m already drained and can barely do what I need to do for him . I’m blessed to have his dad my bf helps me out so much but I feel so bad if I keep the baby I’m taking away from my baby ugh I’m also not ready for 2 under 2

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I had these feeling too when I first found out I was pregnant with number 2. My first thought was literally sadness for the attention that I’m taking away from my daughter.

It’s up to you to assess what will work best for you and your family. 💗

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I respect that you know what you actually want and the guilt is understandable ! You are wise to know what you want for yourself, your current family and actual human child!

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If you're reaching out for different opinions, I will say, those two might be the best of friends 🥹

If you truly believe you can't handle it, then if you believe in God, talk to him to help you find a solution that doesn't make you feel so guilty. No matter what you ultimately decide, either decision will have it's own set of difficulties. Praying for you 🙏🏻❤️

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