So my fiance just drove himself to the emergency room. He has been having some issues for a few days and he finally agreed to go. As he was leaving he made a comment about how he isn’t important because I’m not taking him to the ER. Is he trippin or am I? I became a work from home mom about a month ago, and my job is flexible enough that I could have went with him. However, I’m thinking about the fact that I had just gotten home from taking our youngest to the hospital for a doc apt which he was fully aware of before hand and could have come with. We have 2 littles currently in daycare and in 5 hrs I’ll have to pick them up. I intentionally told him I was taking our daughter so he could join us if he still felt the need to go to the ER this morning.
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He’s probably just wanting to feel important. I’d say just text him telling him that you love him and he’s very important, and you didn’t offer to take him as you need to pick up the girls and usually er visits for very long. I think acknowledging his feeling and reassuring him that’s he’s important will help put him as ease.