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Dating…

So me and a guy I recently met online have been on one date. He was very sweet and nice. Our very first date was planned that we get dinner and go to the movies. The day of the date I asked him what movie theater were we meeting at and what time? ( which I’m already thinking I should’ve had this information already). Mind you he repeatedly asked me days prior was I still free the Saturday.No place and time solidified just that we were going to the movies and dinner Saturday.So we agreed that morning around 5:30pm is a good time for both of us.He sends me an address and I look up the address and its to an apartment complex. So out of curiosity I ask him what is this the address to? And he said my place. I then asked him why did he send me that address and not the address to the movie theater we were meeting at.He said that he wanted to car pool because his license was suspended.I was like ok when were you going to make me aware of that I was picking you up?And why did you just assume that I was comfortable with that?So I told him let’s cancel and wait for a day he has things a little more organized.He insisted that he could get himself there but by this time It was already going on 4 and I hadn’t even started getting ready yet because of all the shadiness he was doing by sending me his home address and not having a location in mind.So I was like ok so lets push back the time and lets just do dinner instead because he mentioned he didn’t want to drive at night too much due to his license being suspended.I said lets meet at the kobe’s like 10 minutes from his home to eliminate long ride for him.I was still hesitant because he was already coming in with issues but I try not to judge.First date went great.He since then has mentioned me coming to his place at least 3 times and I always say no every time.He offers to take me out for mothers day coming up and I say ok sounds good then he asks after what time he would have to leave and I was like 😅😅Like After we leave dinner you would go home.He says he wanted to “chill and rub my feet”.I’m not comfortable with anyone I haven’t known long enough coming to my home.Thats just common sense right?Especially in today’s crazy world.He says that I’m overreacting and its not that serious because hes “not crazy”.Am I overreacting or is he being way too pushy?I told him he seems to be looking for a quick fuck.Im not that kind of lady and left those days in my past.He apologized for making me feel that way but I told him I was no longer interested because I cant trust his intentions to be genuine now that I’ve made him aware and considering he started off being so pushy.Because you know some men will be made aware of what they do and change their behaviors just long enough to get you in bed then stop the “good guy” behavior again.Was I overreacting??