Curly hair question

Hi! This is so random but what products do you guys with curly hair use?? I’m trying to finally use the right stuff so my curls aren’t just massive frizzy messes that I throw in a bun or braid every day but don’t know what to use! I’ve used Kerastase products for the last month and definitely seen some improvement but it’s so expensive I don’t know that I can justify that expense every month 😅 my hair has always been curly, not wavy but not full banana curls either (somewhere in the middle)

Any recs would be appreciated! 🥰

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Cantú products are a bit more inexpensive as well.

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I avoid silicones, drying alcohols and mostly sulphates with the occasional use of a sulphate shampoo. My hair behaves best just cowashing and I used to use the As I Am dry and itchy cowash. I use Garnier hair food conditioner at the moment as it's been really dry since giving birth. For styling I use a mousse (trying to find a new curly friendly one) which is a pantene one (the strong hold one has been discontinued) and creme of nature snot gel

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I use Curl Smith - all vegan ingredients and holds my curls without them feeling stiff

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Try the curl smith bottle with the purple label, it’ll work better for looser curls

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Mielle organics is great!

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