Heartbroken

She’s happy with YOU not ur child and that’s ok just exit left

I agree with the 1st response to the post.
I am so sorry your heart feels broken. It’s natural to grieve that loss. My thought is, wouldn’t it be better to know this about her now rather than after you bought a home together or were a few more years into this relationship.
It’s so important to have a partner who loves and accepts all the complexities and joyfulness of our children.
For kids this special relationship can be so special and positive. Or it can be so impactful in the other direction.
Example: my dad started dating my mom when she was pregnant with me. He ended up adopting me and I always felt it was so special to have him as my dad. I mean he CHOSE to be my dad.

Your child deserves to have your partner be committed to them as well. And sometimes kids act up with them to test that loyalty and commitment❤️

Ftb😭

If this person can't love your child why would you want to be with them? I'm just saying what if they had a child and you said that to them what would they do! It's best you found out now than later on. Your child is your number one priority f*** everyone else

I know that's very true although it has came out of no where they have always got on and she said she loved her many times just seems so rash to throw it all away. I know there's no going back after this I have to put my daughter first. I haven't told her yet I know she will be devastated too. This was my first wlw relationship so it's hitting harder

God that sucks I'm so sorry sweetheart I know it's going to be hard on your child too I hope she didn't say that to your child that would be devastating even though it's not any better of her just saying it to you but at least you can spare your child's feelings if the child didn't hear it. You will get through this sweetheart you seem like a very strong person and a very good mom I hope everything turns out good for you if you ever need to talk don't hesitate to message me privately