I’ve been feeling really hopeless lately. My little one will be 2 next month and it’s easier but it’s still very hard. I’m struggling with my marriage and I honestly don’t know if we can work it out. I never thought having a baby would impact your relationship. I feel so blinded by it as no one really talks about how stressful and how much changes after you have a baby. I don’t really have someone to talk to just needed to vent.
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Same here :(

Having a baby is hands down the hardest thing I've ever done, you are not alone. I think having a baby is romanticised in so many ways and no one really talks about the struggles that come along with it.
It might be worth considering, a health in mind self referral - talking things through can be so helpful.
Also, if you google give us a shout, you can access a text service where you can get everything out in messages and you get a response to your messages.x