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December 2023 Babies 🇺🇸

Moving from in laws

My fiancé and I have been living with his parents since the end of January because the home we were living in took a beating from the cold weather and we could no longer live there. Well we got approved for an apartment and get to move in about a week but we still haven’t told his parents, his mom has been a witch to live with and she uses us as her personal maid we literally aren’t allowed to leave the house unless we have done her dishes, cleaned the bathroom, made sure the basement was spotless, etc. no matter where we have to go she has made us late to multiple appointments because she has to nitpick something. Or she’ll just ignore us for a week and make us super uncomfortable when we haven’t done anything to her. She constantly tells me I have to get a job because she doesn’t want us here for forever and I told her that I’ve applied to multiple places and she doesn’t believe me and tells my fiancé that we need to figure something out and she’s just being rude and condescending and controlling. Well we are going to be moving a lot sooner than we thought but we don’t know how to tell them because we don’t know how they will take it because they are constantly telling us we need to find somewhere to live but first we have to get a new car but in order to do that we need credit cards and we will watch your son so you can work but it has to be on her schedule and time even though she works from home. So they keep saying they want us out but at the same time to stay as long as we need and we better stay and it’s just confusing and I don’t want to tell them and then they kick us out a week before we move and stuff like that and we just found out that we are expecting baby #2 and so we know we need to get out of their house asap because we will be scolded for having another baby even though we are able to do so financially and everything else considering we have a home of our own now and they have no idea that we were even looking for a home or anything like that because it seems like when we tell them anything about what we are planning it gets messed with or she takes control of it and ruins it. What do you think we should do? Sorry for the long post and thanks in advance 💚 also I didn’t realize how many times I said because lol I’m sorry