Have you ever been in a situation where you feel you love your husband, but know you can be happy with someone else.. don’t get me wrong, I’m against infidelity & I ask God to forgive me for doing so. I just can’t let go of the person. I’m scared to leave my family for someone that I know can make me more happy. I’m happy with my husband but he doesn’t try his best to make me happy as a wife, he lost all interest in me, he doesn’t show me love, he is not romantic anymore, I feel like we are just use to each other & also I can’t let him go cuz I have my 10 year old. We both cheated on each other in the past & we both forgave each other, but I feel we did it because of our son & because I feel God doesn’t like divorce. I decided to let go of my happiness someone else to stay with my family. Also I think we got married without love & just because I got pregnant. My husband is the best dad for our son, but maybe he is not meant for me. My family was raised as a believer & im scared to be the first one in my family to commit such a sin. Wish I can talk to someone trustworthy without judging & give me an advice 🥺🥺
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I don’t believe in that saying, but I do believe in divorce. If you’re not happy it’s your right to make that decision. But you could also try other things like couples therapy. I was at the end of my rope with my husband before we got married, but we started therapy, worked through things, got engaged, then married, had a baby, and are both very happy now.