I’m losing my fucking mind
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omg I can feel your frustration I am so sorry 😪 I get upset when my man works then comes home n goes straight to the bathroom then to take a nap right after, I can't imagine 3 days of no help PLUS he's complaining he don't feel good? Smh I can't, men really have the audacity. My best advice is if you have a car then to get out as much as possible, do your babies calm in the car? my son always knocks out so I'll just drive and get coffee and park somewhere . Put on some nursery rhymes and he's content and I'll sit on my phone and chill. Or just go to target and use his card. Local libraries offer a lot of programs for kids as well that can be an option. Staying home wise I'll just do what actually needs to be done and otherwise I'll leave the mess there for him to walk into and food wise only for myself and the baby!
Dude.. I 100% was and still am in your situation. But that’s since the baby was born and he’s 8.5 months. Husband has changed maybe 20 diapers and has put him to sleep once. It’s just me and the baby, dog, and entire house for cooking and cleaning. Husband is up at 5 am and back between 6-10 pm after hvac work You’re not alone.
Did you have communication before the trip? If not I would be annoyed. Sounds so tough bless you x
Had a similar situation in the beginning after my husband went back to work and decided to get back in the gym as well. Pushed himself too hard and had the nerve to tell me his shoulders hurt too much to even pick up our son. I let him have it. Screw that.
That sucks. Can you hire a sitter to help?
Omg. When he gets back next time, you go out with friends or the movies or get a hotel room for the night. 🫶
@Jeannie my husband is usually super helpful, but he will do the same thing. He’ll go out or do something minkrly straining and then he’s too weak to pu k up the baby. He coughed and now his back hurts, he bit his cheek and can’t do anything, ect. It’s like dude I’m in pain too suck it up
@Sarah I’ve had mastitis 4 times, fevers and all, and still had to nurse and take care of our son. I literally don’t care how you feel!
When his tournament is done, flip the script. Get a hotel room for a few days and DO YOU. It's not retaliation, it's not being petty. It's self care. You both deserve some "me" time. He got his, so when he is done go get yours. If no hotel room, then just leave the house and do what you want, come back late.