Father doesn’t want to take responsibilities

Is it ok that my baby Father wants me to leave our Children with their aunties & not wanting to watch them for me for that day? My in laws doesn’t like me and I don’t feel my Children will be safe with them. He did that before, were when I was working, the aunt would watch our Child & when I went to pick him up, he had red eye, another occasion they cut off all his hair at 6 months old without my consent. If I get a judge can I request him to watch our Children & not leave his responsibility solely for someone else? Please help & how can I find a good judge that deals with narcissistic marriage ? I haven’t worked for years since I was a SAHM but I really need a good judge since he’s great with his words. Thanks
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Document every incident for when you do go to court. But I don't know. What state are you in and county?

Virginia

County?

I've read from a FB mom group that it is recommended in child custody to specify the Father be responsible for the children and Not other relatives including strangers if it supports you and your children's family system for health happiness and safety. Perhaps search for a lawyer specializing in high conflict co-parenting

Narc baby daddies are so hard to deal with. I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this, sending you positive vibes 💛

You may want to reach out for support on Reddit as well. https://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticSpouses/s/IJW8ZcnllB https://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticAbuse/s/hxZ18dZC6i

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