How do you coparent with someone after a breakup?
My bd decided he wanted to end things he keeps accusing me of doing things when all I do is sit in the house. Because of this I can’t look at the same the. Betrayal cut so deep to the point I don’t think I’ll be able to keep contact but we have a child together. How do people do it? I know it’s gonna get messy with court involved but I just can’t do the coparentinf toxicity
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I would keep contact via a third party for now (such as one of your parents or a sibling or friend etc) just to arrange contact with your child- other than that there’s no need for you to talk really (unless there’s something else significant child related they need to know about) and then you might get to the point you can handle it yourselves when it isn’t so raw!
I understand that you are going through a difficult time, and I am sorry to hear that. Although I have not been in your exact situation, I have known someone who was. I know it is hard, but if the child is safe with the father, then your past experiences with him should not necessarily come into play. Some partners can be good fathers even if they were not good partners in a romantic relationship. However, it is important to keep in mind that the father's parenting style may change, which could be a challenge. If possible, it would be best to try mediation before going to court.
I hope it all works out for you, and the child is the most important in this situation.
I wish you the best x
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