So I have a 4momth old I found out last month my boyfriend was on dating apps telling people he’s single as well as he cheated on me when I was 7month pregnant and again when I our son was 2 months i left him alone he’s been trying to make things work since I found out… I recently started talking to someone new and today we were (my boyfriend and I) watching a movie with my phone broadcasted to the tv and the guy texted me multiple times and bypassed my DND, long story short my bf seen and he’s been in his feelings since am I wrong? I just feel like when it was me home thinking you at work or worry about you you didn’t gaf you was out cheating living your best life all I’m doing is talking and all of a sudden it’s a problem? Why you can’t handle what you dish out?
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Honestly I don’t think either of you are in the right 😅
Wrong of him to cheat first but doing the same back is no better 🤷♀️

It’s so messed up that he cheated on you in such a vulnerable moment and I’m sorry he did that. But at this point.. you guys should probably just focus on coparenting 😅 no point on continuing to be together if cheating is just going to be a pattern

Tbh, if your both this petty it will just be a constant battle of tit for tat. Either accept he cheated and both of you move on or just break up and coparent. But going back and forth cheating is so toxic and a horrible example for your child.

Love the petty girl but leave that man ALONE

Been in the same predicament but I'm married to the man. And I recently started talking to a guy as well. Well, an old friend. And it hasn't been flirty. Just general conversation. My husband doesn't know either. But I haven't been hiding it. My husband has straight up lied to me and I caught him in a lie about it but the way I tested him about it was I had brought it up like "well I mean, you only met your daughter once a few months after we got married" and all he said was "yeah true" as if he had already told me and like he hadn't been claiming for years that he's never met his supposed daughter. So. Girl. Do YOU. Cuz men never change and they only get worse.
that’s how it is tbh like the guy I’m talking to is a old friend the conversation has really just been friendly and us reconnecting the message he seen from the friend said “I forgot how funny you always were, you always know how to lighten the mood I miss that”
idk he says he’s changing and agreed to therapy but idk I want to believe him but lately he hasn’t been a man of his word and it’s scary bc he used to be so big on honesty… I love him I don’t see myself with anyone but him but I’m just having a hard time moving past these past few months and situations 😭💔

Wellllll… you didn’t leave and now you’re cheating. I would just dump him

can u message me ?

Just dump his ass. You’ll find more peace that way.