I have people ask when I'm having baby #2 all the time. I try to laugh and play it off like this question doesn't drive me batshit crazy when I tell them in not having another. I spent 3 and a half years trying to get pregnant the first time, I can't go through that again. I have fertility issues that cause a potential for miscarriage to be higher, I can't do that, I need to be there for my baby boy. I hated being pregnant! I cry every time I think about giving birth (giving birth to my son or a future pregnancy) I can't do it and no one accepts it.
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You do what’s best for your health and for you and your family. If you’re happy with just your little boy, then that’s all that matters. Don’t worry about what other people think. Some people just want one baby

Girl... I'm wanting another, but it also was awful actually trying to get a sticky babe...
I only had 2 positive pregnancies, and MMC in the span of 3 years... But we were NEVER preventing a pregnancy and have been together 10 years coming up in December. .
I'm so grateful for my son, and often wonder if he's going to be our only. I have always wanted more. But it wasn't fun, easy, and just bloody awful ttc after a MC. (took 18 months)