Am I overreacting??

So last night my boyfriend (baby’s dad) went to bed before me. So he went into our bedroom (son sleeps with us) and 2mins later he came out to grab nappies wipes & clean clothes so I asked if LO’s (turned 2 in June) okay and he said he leaked but apparently was still sleeping so I though ok brill he isn’t asking me to change him at least🤣 but then when I went to bed maybe an hour later my son woke up SCREAMING because he leaked AGAIN. I went to grab wipes but couldn’t find them ?! So I woke my boyfriend and asked him if he wiped him when he changed him. He said no because he just wanted to go to bed as he’s at work today but his t shirt was soaked and everything. So he literally just changed his nappy and his clothes while leaving LO covered in piss🫠🫠 It really irritated me because I see that as him mistreating my son ??? And he gave a shocking excuse for why he didn’t clean him up🤔

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You're not overreacting, and I don't get his "excuse" like you're already changing him anyway, it takes an extra 2 seconds to give him a wipe down? Fucking men are useless, I swear 😤😅

Most men here wouldn’t change the nappy! Honestly it is a shitty thing to do, his sleep is oh so precious, what a man child!

Im sorry that would not be okay with me. My husband has been changing our baby since she was born, we change her diapers the moment they get wet. He tried to change it less often at first and I told him to imagine it was him in that situation because babies cant change their own diapers yet. He is being selfish

Not overreacting at all, I'd be really pissed!

I’d be REALLY pissed! Shows a lack of care and respect towards baby 😞

Yeah no that’s unacceptable… it’s called weaponized incompetence… they do things wrong so u don’t ask him to take care of it . Or they pretend they are incompetent or don’t know how to do something… yeah u better call it like it is tell him u can see right through that

I would be absolutely raging about this. Hes done half the job ans i would say to him: im assuming i am supposed to finish the job because you cant be bothered? I would be mad at three things: -neglect to his child -selfishness and lack of sense of responsibility -not being thoughtful and respectuful to me by leaving the problem for me to fix rather than taking care of it

@Simona exactly!

That is a huge amount of wee in 1 hour and to leak twice. Does your son need to go up a nappy size?? Are you sure your boyfriend actually understood what you were asking? I'm confused by this whole thing. It makes no sense to completely change your child and not wipe them. Also, why do you refer to him as your son? Is he not his son, too?

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