So my first born is 17 months and we have started trying for baby number two. It’s very important to have two kids, for me. But recently I just feel like my husband is just going thru the motions. I don’t even think he actually wants to try and on most days I’m not even sure he likes me very much.
I want to preface this by saying I have an amazing husband and he’s the best dad. I go back and forth with myself. And I think is it just me ? Like am I the only one that thinks this way. Idk.
But he’s just so short with me recently. Easily annoyed. Doesn’t care to talk to me. We are obviously both tired and you all know how much work goes into a child. But I’m kinda getting scared. Like should I be trying for a second?
I’m not scared of any cheating being involved. Honestly I legit just feel like he doesn’t like me anymore. Anyone been thru something similar ? And can share any advice ?
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Learn more about our guidelines.yes he does say work is what is stressing him out and money. But I agree I also think e need counseling I’m going to see if I can look into free options.

I think maybe you should wait a little. If he is stressed about money having another would make things worse
yes this is where b m subs the turmoil comes in I was being pushy about trying for the second I won’t lie

Just wait for another child don’t push it