Tmi sex story
I’m not sure why this happens but here’s my story.
Sometimes when I’m having sex with my partner I get totally turned off. Like I get really dry and it feels like needles or something. And the thing is, I get turned off very easily. Like for example I wanted to switch to doggy because that’s my favorite and he said wait and I’m like shit I been up here like 20 mins I want a turn. So he told me to wait, then once we switched he put it back in me and he went for a few and I was about to get off and he STOPPED! He stopped and said I wasn’t low enough on the edge of the bed and like that legit turned me right the heck off. I’m not trying to make it all about me but….like I wanna turn. So here I am, mad that I barely got off and he did. Not that he hurt me I decided to add lube to the mix and that helped out with finishing him off. Just sucks sometimes.
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You’re not the only one. I have clients like this. Might be a lot of things: you’re not truly in the moment, not enough foreplay, maybe you’re love language isn’t being fulfilled even way before sex or foreplay. There’s a disconnection somewhere. It’s normal
A question, when you were about to get off did you SAY that? Or say something like “don’t stop” or “keep doing what you’re doing”? Because most men need literal instructions to learn how to please and then after a while they can get better at reading you. But doggy is difficult to read as you are facing away anyway.
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Personally I do what’s best for me. I’m not dealing with selfish lovers anymore, I love a man who loves to please & then I will reciprocate