So I had a round of ivf that didn't work obviously thought I had got over it getting prepared for frozen transfers as we have some in the freezer.
But still trying naturally etc but literally just got my period and I sat staring at the bloody tissue (tmi) for like 5 minutes and then burst into tears almost as if I had PTSD . . is this normal or am I just being a fanny and will i ever get over it im angry im upset im all over the place and I'm just feeling a bit fed up sorry for the pity party over here
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Hi i completely understand , u might be feeling awful as I have also gone through this ๐. But I'm sure someday we will also be happy with our Babies. ๐. As I keep hearing everyone saying there is a light end of every tunnel,so let's hope for it ๐ until then i think we have to live every moment & try to be grateful for what we have currently. Things will work soon ๐ May you have all happiness ๐

Donโt be so hard on yourself ๐ฅฐ
I had MMC with my first embryo transfer and had to allow myself time to grieve to process it- itโs not easy.
We were also in the same position trying between rounds but after the first round I looked at my period as a stepping stone to the next round and the sooner I had it the sooner I could have a baby. I poured so much positivity and energy into the next round to work and it did- I now have a 14month old!
So this normal. Allow these emotions because your body is telling you something ๐ฉท

great to hear that positivity helps๐ let me also try this next time coz even my first IVF ended in missed abortion. But throughout that journey I was anxious. Do let us know if something helped in keeping you sane and less anxious