Cursing

I’ve slipped up maybe twice in our six years of marriage and swore at him in front of our two kids I felt so bad afterwards and we just talked about it and came up with a plan to effectively pause the fight and realize when we need to simmer down before hashing something out. We still bicker in front of our kids sometimes and I don’t actually see that as a bad thing as long as you also then resolve things and show love in front of them too, its really important l to model conflict resolution to kids so they don’t grow up and end up with an anxious attachment style or thinking every little argument is the end of the world in their relationships (how I naturally am) or with an avoidant style and want to just shut down and not deal with anything (my husbands style 🥲) cuz it takes workkkkk to get through those natural habits then

I've been with my husband almost 7 years now and we've never even had an argument. If we did it absolutely would not be in front of the kids.

My husband and I very rarely argue about anything and when we do its more of a short bicker session than a full on fight. This happened more when we first moved in together but barely happens ever anymore. We definitely never curse at each other though. That's a very unhealthy form of communication especially in front of children. Children don't need to witness that stuff so if you are fighting with your significant other you should probably take it somewhere private and keep the kids away from that type of behavior.

I cuss all the time. In my family and in my job/culture it's normal and accepted - so yes I cuss in front of my child. 1. It's never in anger. 2. It's never a person. So no "your a ...." but yes "fuck that table" or "damn I'm hungry" 3. It's not every other word. I may cuss when angry and talking with my husband, but it's never at him. We never call names. We don't really fight though

We never fight like this. Been together 10 years and i think weve only had 2 or 3 arguments that werent immediately solved by just talking about it.

I just left my husband who yelled and swore at me in front of our baby. I will say this: sometimes it doesn’t “take two.” I never imagined that I would fight in front of my child, much less with yelling and swearing. It wasn’t my choice. It only takes one to escalate in front of a child and the other person can’t always settle them down (nor should it be their job to regulate another adult).

Before our son was born, We came to an agreement to do our best to not argue in front of our child. We’ve slipped up a couple of times and I get so sad and angry because it’s not the example I want to set for my child, but I always stop it before it goes past a couple of minutes and just say to resume later when he’s asleep.

But we also hardly fight nor swear at each other.