Healing

Hi all- I am 3 weeks out and can’t help but to question if my healing is on track and if there is anything I can do to minimize long term effects. I find it so shocking that even after having a 4DT, my postpartum visit is still set for 6 weeks out. Are there any gentle exercises or things you are doing to support your healing? I went on a longer walk today (~45 minutes) and feel increased soreness. The internet is also not very helpful on standard guidelines and OB is a bit dismissive that everything is ok just wait until 6 weeks. Other thoughts and questions: 1. How long to take stool softeners, will this be forever? 2. How long to pat dry vs. wipeing down there? Would love to hear about others experiences that are farther along. Thanks in advance!
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Girlll I got very close to a 3 rd degree tear… still a second degree tear … I’m 6 months down the road and I’m barely starting to feel normal (a lot of discomfort but not ripping pain anymore). Scar tissue is absolutely terrible, I still take fiber/miralax or I WILL absolutely bleed ( not worth it) I even have been doing “scar tissue work” to help. I know you have a WAY longer road with that tear, praying for you ❤️ Also I didn’t start regular wiping until I could touch the area. Part of the “scar tissue work” was to work on touching the area, and I started working on that at about 8 weeks , my stitches had already dissolved at that point

Oh goodness, thanks for your insight! I wish more people talked about this and had better guidelines. Was it a pelvic floor PT who gave instructions for the scar tissue work or was it the OB?

You can always call and request that you are seen soon, at the 3 week mark rather than 6. With a fourth degree tear you definitely want them to be on it to monitor everything and make sure no problems develop. There is a few issues from fourth degree tears that you want to keep in eye on. ❤️‍🩹 Pelvic floor therapy has been a huge help with scar tissue and mobility. They will help give exercises that are gentle enough and efficient.

I started physical therapy at about 5 weeks postpartum and am still going 7 months out

At 3 weeks I didn’t do any exercise I was told don’t do anything until 12 weeks

Also- I was seen every week by a urogynacologist to assess how it’s healing etc. Have you seen one yet? Message me if needed

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