Pregnancy alone..
How does one cope with doing pregnancy alone ? I work with the child’s father and he acts like he doesn’t even know me sometimes. I’m 29 weeks pregnant and its been like this from the start and my heart is broken. I love him so much but he just doesn’t love me. He text me whenever he wants, he’s been to 1 appointment and he treats me horribly…but for some reason I wanna be with him so bad. I have a daughter already and I just feel so disappointed in myself. I’m only 22 he’s 26 I’m just not sure how to cope with it all. I feel guilty for taking away his first child’s experience all because I couldn’t get the abortion and now I’m all alone…no one to love me in such a vulnerable time.
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don’t ever feel alone i know when ur pregnant you’re emotions are so high and you just feel so alone .. but you have to be that strong mom for your daughters yk get yourself out of that dark hole and just know you’re going to be okay ur strong and beautiful and he doesn’t know ur worth but you will find it urself give yourself time but don’t try to rely on him for ur happiness you’re carrying a blessing be thankful for it to be a mother again yk
It’s hard I started feeling very needy around 29 weeks as well. When ur bigger u just wish the dad was there and cared.. I feel like it’s even harder since ur seeing him and the way he’s acting towards you. Just try to focus on loving the baby and preparing for the babies arrival . U won’t be alone forever and its his loss.
I feel your pain mama. I promise it gets better. With or without him. Try to focus on you and the baby for now. You can re visit things with the dad afterwards but your baby needs your love right now 🩵 I know it’s hard, I also went through it. But there’s always light at the end. Just wait til you hold that little baby. It’ll all be so beautiful.
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