Hi girls, I’ve been overthinking the age gap between me, my sister and my unborn daughter. I’m 19, my sister is 6, and my daughter will be here in February. There is a large age gap between my and my sister but I worry about how it will affect her being a auntie at such a young age.
Is this a normal thought?
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I wouldnt stress
I’m 20, have twin siblings - 5 and another who is 8 next febuary. I have a 5 month old.
It won’t affect her, she’ll probably know she is an ‘aunty’ but I wouldnt be surprised if she acted more like a sibling
It shouldn’t have an emotional toll and i’d be surprised if it did

Me and my Uncle are 9 years apart and growing up he was like my big brother.
I have 2 other uncles who are 2&3 years older than me.
If anything I think it brought us closer together as we understood one another.

My youngest brother is 7 (just tuned 7 in July) I’m 24.
He adores my children aged 1 and 2. He is an uncle to 3, the youngest being a month old💖
They actually have a better bond than my kids with their older uncles / aunts

My youngest brother is 9 and honestly he stresses about how he’s gonna take care of the baby without a job💀 but he’s also excited to have a baby to play with.