I need an advice!! Please
Hi Mama’s
I know this is a group for moms but I’m going thru something with my husband. We got married in 2020 and in every anniversary there is something we never celebrate anything. And now 4 years later we were actually planning on going out as a couple maybe with our son if my in-laws were not able to take care of him. But anyways, my husband has other 4 children and one then came to visit this weekend (without saying anything) just appeard here. My husband has been working day and night so we were not able to celebrate in anyway on our aniversary, and now that his kid came he’s saying that maybe we can keep the plans on going out but make it as a family and then we celebrate on another weekend and now I’m super pissed and he’s mad because I’m always mad about something.
Am I correct or not?
I don't think it is a matter of correct here. You have every right to be frustrated that your celebration was disrupted. I can understand how that would be super disappointing. However, the way you respond to the things outside of your control can make a huge difference for everyone. Express how you feel then try to make the best of your situation. Maybe you can still have an enjoyable night even if it isn't the one you wanted.